🌸 The Hollyhock I Almost Pulled Out
- Katrina Drescher
- 1 day ago
- 2 min read
When this plant first appeared in my garden, I didn’t recognise it.
At all.
It popped up quietly among everything else, with big soft leaves and an awkward, gangly shape. No obvious flowers. No instant charm.
Honestly?
I thought it was a weed.
But something stopped me from pulling it out.
I liked it.
It had presence.
It looked… hopeful.
So I let it stay.
Completely forgetting that months earlier, I’d planted hollyhock seeds right there.
Funny how that works.
When Patience Looks Like Doing Nothing
For weeks, nothing much happened.
Just leaves.
Just stems.
Just waiting.
In a world that loves instant results, this plant was doing the opposite. No rushing. No showing off. No proving anything.
Just growing underground first.
Then one morning, I noticed it.
A tiny blush of pink.
A bud loosening.
A quiet announcement: I’m ready now.
And a few days later — this.
Soft, silk-petal pink.
Glowing in the morning light.
Standing tall beside my patio like it had always belonged.
The “weed” had become the star.
Why Hollyhocks Don’t Belong in a Vase
People often ask if you can cut hollyhocks for inside.
Technically, yes.
But they’re not meant for that.
Hollyhocks bloom slowly up a central stem, one flower at a time. Each bloom is part of a bigger story. When you cut one, you interrupt it.
They’re meant to be noticed where they grow.
Not relocated for convenience.
They’re “walk past me every day and smile” flowers.
Not “put me in water and forget me” flowers.
Companion Magic in a Storybook Garden
Next to my hollyhock is a cosmos — light, playful, floating beside it like a little fairy friend.
That’s not accidental.
In regenerative, chemical-free gardening, we plant for relationships, not just looks.
Tall + soft.
Strong + delicate.
Structure + movement.
Nature always knows how to balance herself — when we let her.
What This Flower Taught Me
Standing there one morning, coffee in hand, looking at this bloom, I realised something:
I nearly removed it.
Because I didn’t recognise it.
Because it didn’t impress me straight away.
Because it didn’t fit my expectations.
And yet…
If I had pulled it out, I would’ve missed this.
This beauty.
This moment.
This lesson.
Not everything that looks out of place is wrong.
Not everything that takes time is failing.
Not everything that grows quietly is insignificant.
Some of the best things start out looking like weeds.
Growing Hollyhocks at Home (The Gentle Way)
If you’d like to grow hollyhocks in your own garden, here’s what they love:
🌿 Lots of sun
🌿 Well-drained soil
🌿 Space to grow tall
🌿 Minimal interference
🌿 No chemicals
They’re old-fashioned, resilient, and generous. Once they’re happy, they often return year after year on their own.
A gift that keeps giving.
Let Some Things Surprise You
This hollyhock reminded me why I garden the way I do.
I don’t micromanage.
I don’t poison.
I don’t control everything.
I observe.
I trust.
I let things become what they’re meant to be.
And sometimes…
A “weed” becomes the most beautiful thing in the garden.
🌸
Kat
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